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Category: Personal Development

| The Worst & Longest 23 Minutes Of My Life |

One thing is certain, you can never satisfy a confident self-sufficient self-fish piece of shit furniture with self-awareness issues. Another thing is certain, I will never invest my time and effort into pleasing any new furniture again.


| The Conscious Art Of Being Naked |

Before we dive into “the art of being naked” how often have you ever gone stark naked? I mean! Apart from the thrilling feeling you get from stripping off your work clothes and swaying on the sofa or bed in time to binge your favorite show. On a more serious note, I will like to invite you to try this, if you have never consciously stripped yourself for assessment. I’m referring to Self-awareness, dummy) haha! Bring your mind all the way home…

| Abortion: A Woman’s Right To Salvation |

This exaggerated pretense is the reason why people replace sex with “that thing” or any slang that placate their ears when communicating. (P.s! If we ever run into each other, and happen to discuss anything sexual, it will be in your best interest not to replace sec with ‘that thing or did it’.) To every African parent, their kids are virgins and to most kids, their parents are learners.(don’t know what’s up)

| Depression – A Mental Illness. Interviewed A Doctor|

Clinically, depression is a mood disorder. Mood disorders are basically a group of psychiatric disorders characterized by abnormalities in mood which can vary from extreme sadness to extreme excitement. Depressive disorders itself varies from mild depressive disorders to severe depression with psychosis.

| PSA – Much Ado About Being Cultured In Nigeria|

In law school, during the mandatory dinner organized for us, we were expected to eat in a cultured manner. Food that was meant to be enjoyed became a burden. I saw friends and colleagues struggle with dinning etiquettes. Fork and knife mandate became a Beethoven rehearsal. I am very good with fork and knife (I love it) but how does that make me more cultured than someone who dines with a spoon?
In Nigeria, if I speak English with Igbo influence, my people say I have Igbo tongue, but when a foreigner speaks with native influence, we call it accent. C’mon fellow Nigerians, that is ridiculous. A lady went for a conference in Greece and after delivering her lectures on International Law was ushered to a wine tasting event to pass the time. Of course she could not decipher one wine from the other. All she knew was the wine was sweet. The foreigners near her gave her that unwanted stare – “uncultured person”.

| How To Be Proactive |

If you want to be great or achieve any kind of success in life, then being proactive should be a keyword at the back of your mind. Taking responsibilities for yourself should be at the tip of your fingers. I hope these practical steps help you achieve that;

| False Humility |

…then boom, 🤯 I learnt that what I have known my entire life is false. Okay maybe not this dramatic but you catch my drift. 😉
Let me give you perfect examples of when you are being humble and when it’s a total false humility:

| 20 Ways Of Improving Your Self Esteem |

When I see a person with a low or high self esteem, I immediately see a reflection of their upbringing. This is not a rule as I have witnessed a lot of folks work on their self image to a point where there is no negative self image to be seen.

| How I Deal With Depression |

Life is not always hard but what you do when life deals you a hard card cannot be overemphasized….email me any personal stories of how you dealt with your depression and help someone battling the same issue out there and have an amazing new week 🖤

| Do Not Delay Your Dreams |

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve.” By Napoleon Hill…
As I lie down to ponder over my daily routine, sit down to meditate or take a nice evening stroll(something I should do more regularly😩)

| A Poem To My Mother |

Nothing can replace our mothers or our mother’s love. This poem is nothing compared to all the love and appreciation they should hear everyday….

| Advice To My Younger Self |

If you could go back in time to give your younger self a good piece of advice, what would it be? I interviewed these women and their response will shock you…read more on

| The Art Of Introspection |

From elections to wars we find ourselves trapped in cycles we cannot escape. We constantly entertain mass murderers who promise us revolution…

| Being Normal Is Boring |

Maya Angelou wasn’t overemphasizing the need to live your best life when she warned us that; ‘if you are always trying to be normal, you’ll never know how amazing you can be’. Let that marinate.🤔